Tuesday, October 29, 2013

Ready or not...

 We will never be ready for love. Whenever you are, Love usually shies away and hides. 

Love is a surprise. It's a bundle of joy. 

What you need to do is to always be open —Open minded, open arms, open heart. 

Whether it's love or not, we should all be prepared for changes. 

Friday, October 25, 2013

My Yesterday's Better Version

As I ponder while I lay, i think i did well today. 
Other's need not mention.
If I was good within the tension.

What really counts the most, 
Are not the achievements i could boast,
But what has made me stay,
in spite all troubles, i was not astray

I may complain of this bad day i've been,
But to others who barely eats won't be keen,
Coz i still am thankful, this is not my worst
It wasn't even close to those whose houses got dispersed.


I should really minimiZe all my complains,
And learn instead and thou ordain
That from this day on, count blessings not sheep
I'm lucky and blessed i'll stop to weep.



Tuesday, September 24, 2013

Understand that Love is Understanding

Love doesn't strictly require a fluency in a common language, all it needs is a common understanding when one is at it's best, neutral, and worst. 

When one of the two failed to support the other on their worst, or misunderstood them on their best and lost the opportunity to deepen relationship, then everything else cause a collapse in understanding. 

Relationship need not be exclusive to lovers. From a pet and owner's point of view, i have arrived at an understanding of how my cat understands love in the cat body language. He on the other hand have learned, the hard way, when it is worst to approach me and when to show affection.

Understanding is having the right gesture at the right timing. Fail on one of the two and negativities could be ignited. Love is a learning process. Learn while you love and you shall grow both for the relationship and your self. 

Love is a mindset: The brief of The Love Theory

Being inlove is an emotion that we nurture. Keeping in the love is a choice we withstand. Staying when love is challenged, if not absent, is a commitment we did with out whole being (mind, soul, spirit) and not just our hearts per se. #heartmindsets

Saturday, September 21, 2013

Bad is Good.

A bad situation is not the situation that made you feel bad, destroyed your plans, or flipped your expectations upside down. 

Any situation where you failed to grow, failed to learn, failed to improve, or failed to see progress is A BAD SITUATION. This is why to some, winning is not a healthy moment because they imply that they need not to exceed their own standards and thus begin to fail thereafter. 

So assess every situation and never leave figuratively empty handed. 

#BadMood #TooSleepless #unhappy #NotTheBadSituation #EasierSaidThanDone #heartmindets

Thursday, September 19, 2013

...not so bad after all.

In any bad situation the only bad thing, this democratic country, allows you a right from having is a bad mood and not a bad attitude. 

Don't escape the situation. If you want to go, leave the context as a whole and not just the bad moments. If you enjoy the perks and benefits, then stay on all times, may it be bad or good. #heartmindsets

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

A relationship is but a...

A relationship is not the understanding of each other's need of one another.
It is but the idependence of each to any thing and anyone but recognition of the imperfection of being human wherein, when downfall strikes, a temporary need of support from another stronger and concerned person is required. 

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

The Beauty in Self-security and Independence.

Trust me, it's not really her hair or her eyes that turned your head to her. 
It was not the proportion of her features or her curves that made you do that second turn. It was her confidence that did. It was her self-assurance that made you feel her presence...her aura. 

Although it's not what you will remember her of but trust me, when you have not seen any of her, it was her own independence that made you pay attention. Pay attention to someone you never knew existed. 

This same logic applies to both single and committed ladies. The single ones are usually the independent ones while the committed ones are either independent or self-secured through their lover. Nevertheless, the presence is something felt before other senses would even notice. 

You my friends are beautiful, not in an air-head manner but, in the sense that you are rare and somewhere out there, you are someone else's missing piece, just as much as they are to you.  Love yourself and unleash that beauty. Create that presence and be self-secured. Go on and live every moment. You only live once. Good night! #heartmindsets

Tuesday, July 2, 2013

Love like a Photographer

Balance. Focus. Develop from the Negative. Breathe. Hold it. Patience. Learn to let go of the shutter. Use the contrasts for harmony. Tell the story without the words. Love like it's the last chance to take that shot.

Love like a photographer.

Compose wisely. Achieve that balance of making sense. Enclose, in one shot, in one frame, all the necessary details and remove the factors that are unnecessary. Take Control enough to eliminate what is not important but be subtle with your decision that you may not completely change the beauty of what was natural.

Focus what is important. Every single thing can be important at its own context but, just like anywhere in life, choose which context to highlight. Life is full of compromises. Always seek what you value more. Sometimes the leaf can tell a story more than the bug in it. Sometimes it's that transparent web that coveys the message but if you can't push it with your gear, you boil down the next options. There are things that just can't happen just yet. Frustration is what you'll call them. Right now is just not the moment for you and it to share. Not now, not yet, or never.

When frustrations pile up, look back. Are you still on the right track of things? Is this really the path you want to be? Why does it seem like you are going far from it? Why did your frustrations piled up if this wasn't the case? On situations like this, as Jason Magbanua once mentioned, "Get over it!" There are more important things you considered which placed you on that situation. It may have not been helpful to that situation but you compromised that over something you considered more relevant back then. We cannot avoid compromise, we just need to make better choices every time we have to.

Develop from the Negative. Negative captures everything we chose. Negatives are very delicate to handle. Once you fail to mix the right chemical, you could lose everything it had and all that's left is the damaged negative. In every situation, handle it with so much care that you know you'll lose everything if you're tactless. Sometimes our timing is bad that's why the negatives are not at its finest but every process is a learning stage. If it wasn't teaching you anything, unwind, take a break, empty your mind and ask, "Where would you rather be?"

Breathe. Hold it. Patience. Photography is a harmony of choices, timing, and passion -Choice of what to capture, timing when to click the shutter, and the passion to spend time on the choices and timing. If there is no harmony, there is no photograph. A picture is a bare representation of an output from a camera. A photograph tells a story, embodies a soul, and is eternal. whether the physical photograph decays, the image captured stays in the hearts and minds of the lives it has moved. It's story will traverse generations. It will spark inspiration that is unchangeable.

Learn to let go of the shutter. If you hold it too long, you'll be blinded with nothing captured. If you're not going to let go, you won't capture anything. This is one of those rare moments when letting go meant having more for yourself.

Contrasts immediately causes friction. When not handled wisely, it could turn out bad which usually happens. Use the contrasts for harmony. Just like strong colors that collide on a horizon, use contrasts to benefit and compliment differences rather than upstaging each. Amateurs can never get that harmony on their first shot just the same as learning the same skill on life decisions. It takes a lot of trial and error, a lot of patience, and a lot of learning before we get to that polished harmony.

Convey your message without the words. Tell the world what you feel without the use of words. Do it. Shoot it. Show it. Stop the talking and let the passion overflow from your works instead.

Shoot like it's your one and only chance to do it. Don't hold back just because your unsure. Always arrive prepared. Always anticipate and never let any chance slip. Go on with no fear but that missed photograph if you hesitate. Take risks and don't be afraid of mistakes. Committing a mistake is okay but do it the second time and it becomes a choice.

Love like a photographer and you'll see the beauty of life with or without the colors.

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Hurdles: to stop or to overcome

When encounters a hurdle, should one stop or should it be overcome?

The answer to this big question lies into how much passion and will power one has. When we don't know what to do, we begin to question our identity. Who are we really for us to know what we should do on big decisions? or even small decisions...

When we are faced with the biggest hurdle, should we take the detour? or should we jump over and run the risk of pain and injury in case we fail.

If we found ourselves injured, should we take the hurdle once more and risk another injury or should we continue until we are immunized by the pain if not a master on jumping over it?

When it is causing us a trauma that is beyond the hurdle, do we have to proceed?
if we quit, does the trauma stop?
If it doesn't stop, should have we taken that hurdle to settle all doubts?

In every hurdle, some are confronted by more issues that they can ignore if they want to speed up but eventually they are not running away from this issues but just delaying the confrontation. One must develop a strategy and strike that balance when to keep running, when to jump, when to pause to resolve issues, and when to take that detour.

This strategy is a learning process. To learn is to commit a mistake. If one fails once, it is acceptable. If one failed twice, on the same mistake, it is a choice. It becomes a definition of your personality. A character that embraces your perfections together. These are imperfections that encloses our greatness. Some people correct this and risk the loss of something they are used to be good at, along the process...unconsciously.

In every stage of life, hurdles come in various shapes, looks, and feel. It intensifies as we grow old unless we delayed those younger smaller hurdles which makes us stuck to that obstacle course...and we fail to move on from those....and we lose progress.

Wednesday, March 6, 2013

Nobody is Perfect



Everyone keeps saying “Nobody is Perfect” but nobody said that “It’s impossible for someone to be perfect.”

Ever noticed that? Ever though that someone could actually be perfect with the downfall of being a nobody? 

Any one can be perfect but no one chooses to because when they once were, they were forgotten, neglected, and taken.... for granted. How and Why?

Perfect is when nothing is wrong. When everything falls at the right time, right place, right people, and everything was priceless. People tend to remember these memories because it is something rare. On that moment, it was the perfect moment. It wasn't perfect because everything and everyone on that moment was perfect, they were right.... right for that moment but not right forever which is a perfect person.

If you are a perfect person, you are always right on every situation and factors of being human –from the physical down to mental and psychological factors and many more. So what makes this person a nobody? Simple. In this world whose shape couldn’t even be a perfect circle, imperfections sparks and spices anything and everything there is. Without these imperfections, all our lives will be boring because whether you like it or not, the mistakes are the ones we remember. They mark our lives and we recall the details more often than those days that are perfect. Some moments mark our memories simply because despite all the imperfect factors, everything was right for the moment.

So why does someone become a nobody when they’re perfect? It’s because they don’t spark anything. There is nothing remarkable about them. They are perfect. They don’t need anyone to support their psychological needs which is supplemented by their perfect look, perfect status, and with their biological needs as human, they need not to bother. These people are nobody because they can easily be forgotten. It is the perfect man who adjusts and let’s everyone do their thing. With these small acts, they are rarely appreciated because they are perfect enough to not require attention.

If they’re perfect enough to not be angry nor be impatient at “ALL TIMES” then people will eventually fail to develop a value for their time. By then they are neglected and taken for granted, officially making them a “Nobody.”

It is always nice to do perfect things. Gain Perfect scores. Share perfect moments. But it is in one’s admission and submission to the fact that they are not perfect do they learn to take risks, which may lead to mistakes sometimes, and help them discover a new world and take another leap for their life. Mistakes are unavoidable and everyone can commit it. But NO ONE is allowed to commit the same mistake more than once. Those who do must suffer the consequences.



P.S. Thinking, living, and embodying the idea that they are “perfect” usually stops the growth and improvement –that makes them a nobody.

Saturday, March 2, 2013

Wanderlust Heartbeat

I wonder what your doing,
I wonder if you're awake.
I wonder if you've eaten,
I wonder with all that takes.

I wonder if you'll read this,
Or even know it's you.
I wonder if you'd like this,
And wonder if you'd like me too
I wonder if it's even nice for me post this here
I wonder here, i wonder there, but my feelings for you are clear

I wonder if you would even see me
Or can i at least ask you,
I wonder if i'm on your mind,
Coz my heart heeds only you.