When a person falls, whether they intentionally did it or their unconcious mind chose, will it matter if its Mr. Perfect?
is it Ms.Future Wife or Ms.Fit (misfit)?
Mr. Right is not who is perfection as defined by everyone. Mr. Right is your own definition of BETTER HALF. If you have a Mr. Perfect-according-to-them, you have a PARTNER good for BRAGGING RIGHTS but bad for the HEART. Just like Junk Foods and SOftdrinks, you buy them rather than palamig and fishballs because they are more appealing yet they cause you more trouble LONG TERM than the fresh food prepared. That's BRAGGING RIGHTS. WHat does one really want?
When we were kids, we wanted the finest toys. When we were teens, we wanted the finest things. When we work, we wanted the finest career. When we age, we wanted the finest vacations. But to get the finest THINGS, we remove the TOYS. When we WORK, we would not buy the finest things to SAVE. To have the FINEST VACATION, we forget work. THERE WILL ALWAYS BE SOMETHING THAT BECOMES FORGOTTEN FOR SOMETHING BETTER. BUT LOVE DOESN'T REQUIRE A PERFECT PARTNER, COMMITMENT DOES.
I DO. What does it take to love? ALL IT TAKES IS MOTIVATION. What does it take to commit? ALL IT TAKES IS MOTIVATION....AND PASSION.
Mr. Right is your better half. Not the person who changes you but the person you are willing to change yourself to because YOU WANT THE BEST FOR HIM and that includes the BEST OF YOU.
Mr. Right is not the person who blinds you, but shows the old and new you when you are confused of your decisions in life, in your career, in your love.
I QUIT. Leaving is not always a coward's choice. Sometimes it becomes the best option and only knights in shinning armors can handle such decision. Mr. Left is someone who has left you for a reason you see irrelevant or lame. There are other "MR." names you could give those who did stupid things to you but let us not count the mistakes, IT ONLY GIVES YOU STRESS AND NOTHING MORE BUT STRESS AND UGLINESS. Let us be positive. Mr. Left may have been Mr. Perfect but their perfection becomes its highest when they realize that you deserve someone. This kind of people are the Mr. Right in the making but they couldn't GROW BETTER if they keep on being with you.
Some people give that growth while keeping the commitment. This case rarely succeeds. When both had their growth, they can meet again, not necessarily to get back together, but to see how each have grown and LEARN FROM SUCH EXPERIENCE. This is the best closure I could suggest but not the only closure there is.
Mr. Bestfriend. A lot of people use the term "bestfriend" to keep the person at its closest without the pain but also without the benefits. But the best of relationships work when both are EACH OTHER'S BESTFRIEND. Run into that person when you have a problem...especially at love...not as a lover, but as a friend. Talk with a different tone anda different perspective. Understanding is the most vital part in a commitment whether there is love or none. A lover is easier to forget compared to a bestfriend. Once your bestfriend is different from your lover, SNIFF MORE AND YOU WILL SMELL TROUBLE.
Whoever is you Mr. Right..... whether they know it or not, it doesn't really matter...unless you start expecting.
