Understand that Love is Understanding

Love doesn't strictly require a fluency in a common language, all it needs is a common understanding when one is at it's best, neutral, and worst. 

When one of the two failed to support the other on their worst, or misunderstood them on their best and lost the opportunity to deepen relationship, then everything else cause a collapse in understanding. 

Relationship need not be exclusive to lovers. From a pet and owner's point of view, i have arrived at an understanding of how my cat understands love in the cat body language. He on the other hand have learned, the hard way, when it is worst to approach me and when to show affection.

Understanding is having the right gesture at the right timing. Fail on one of the two and negativities could be ignited. Love is a learning process. Learn while you love and you shall grow both for the relationship and your self. 

Love is a mindset: The brief of The Love Theory

Being inlove is an emotion that we nurture. Keeping in the love is a choice we withstand. Staying when love is challenged, if not absent, is a commitment we did with out whole being (mind, soul, spirit) and not just our hearts per se. #heartmindsets

Bad is Good.

A bad situation is not the situation that made you feel bad, destroyed your plans, or flipped your expectations upside down. 

Any situation where you failed to grow, failed to learn, failed to improve, or failed to see progress is A BAD SITUATION. This is why to some, winning is not a healthy moment because they imply that they need not to exceed their own standards and thus begin to fail thereafter. 

So assess every situation and never leave figuratively empty handed. 

#BadMood #TooSleepless #unhappy #NotTheBadSituation #EasierSaidThanDone #heartmindets

...not so bad after all.

In any bad situation the only bad thing, this democratic country, allows you a right from having is a bad mood and not a bad attitude. 

Don't escape the situation. If you want to go, leave the context as a whole and not just the bad moments. If you enjoy the perks and benefits, then stay on all times, may it be bad or good. #heartmindsets

A relationship is but a...

A relationship is not the understanding of each other's need of one another.

It is but the idependence of each to any thing and anyone but recognition of the imperfection of being human wherein, when downfall strikes, a temporary need of support from another stronger and concerned person is required. 

The Beauty in Self-security and Independence.

Trust me, it's not really her hair or her eyes that turned your head to her. 

It was not the proportion of her features or her curves that made you do that second turn. It was her confidence that did. It was her self-assurance that made you feel her presence...her aura. 

Although it's not what you will remember her of but trust me, when you have not seen any of her, it was her own independence that made you pay attention. Pay attention to someone you never knew existed. 

This same logic applies to both single and committed ladies. The single ones are usually the independent ones while the committed ones are either independent or self-secured through their lover. Nevertheless, the presence is something felt before other senses would even notice. 

You my friends are beautiful, not in an air-head manner but, in the sense that you are rare and somewhere out there, you are someone else's missing piece, just as much as they are to you.  Love yourself and unleash that beauty. Create that presence and be self-secured. Go on and live every moment. You only live once. Good night! #heartmindsets