LOVE and the theory =❥

Life, they say, is random. Nothing is predictable. Anticipation is a guessing game with great thrill.

I say otherwise.

Life, as I define it, is what you make it.

The future is what you do in your present. WHat you will do in the present will be based on your past.

Love has its pattern. To make it successful, the lover must know her beloved's past. 

To see their future, the LOVER must check what her BELOVED does in situations and memories they have.

IDEALS and STANDARDS butt in and they affect your decision. You may give up your PHYSICAL PREFERENCES but there will always be standards that you will hold on to and your BELOVED meets those and from there you start LOVING them.

When your BELOVED fails on one standard, you begin to tell yourself that NOBODY is PERFECT. Then you STICK to the FACT that some of your STANDARDS are met and yo still KEEP THE RELATIONSHIP.

LOVE is a MINDSET. Biologically and scientifically speaking, it is still your brain who is responsible for the shivers(kilig)  and nervousness (kaba) that you feel. 

If you think that LOVE is destiny, it isn't. It is YOUR WANT to SEE and FEEL THE COMPATIBILITY  that counts every encounter and records it to your memory and from there you start recalling and you name it DESTINY. If you could have recorded in your mind EVERY PERSON you see on the street, you ride with at the bus, or share a table with at the fastfood, you are either CRAZY now or you are a GENIUS since birth.  Since you're a NORMAL person, YOU only choose certain PEOPLE.

LOVE BLINDS. ONCE YOU HATE A PERSON, every nice thing is a SIN to you. The same with the ONE you LOVE, EVERY SIN to you is STILL A NICE THING.

LOVE is not EXPECTATION. It is COMMITMENT that gives the RIGHT to EXPECT but LOVE is not COMMITMENT. There can be a COMMITMENT without LOVE, that's what businessmen do. There is also LOVE without commitment, I call it the POKER OF HEARTS. A gamble of your own SANITY into UNCERTAINTY.

LOVE is the loss of SANITY and at the same time the KEEPING of a BETTER HALF. That is why a lot of people change when they LOVE. Some leave it to their LOVERS to change them, Some change to keep their BELOVED, Some change because their LOVERS did and they are coping up to keep their LOVERS which is their BELOVED (huh? I got confused on teh last one haha)

LOVE is not what you know it, it is what it makes you become. SO BEWARE. BE AWARE. and LOVE RIGHTFULLY❣